8 months in silence

Banyak nak cerita tapi tak tau nak start dari mana. Jari pun rasa pelik2 je menaip ni. Last post on May 2012. It's the last month of 2012 already. Terlalu banyak yang terjadi sepanjang 8 bulan ni sampai tak tercerita pasti.

Semua sebab biz..Biz yang telah sangat2 membuahkan hasil. Terlalu busy. Kalau dulu I asyik complain bosan bosan bosan as a housewife tapi sekarang being a (Work at Home Mom)WAHM masa lebih terisi dan seronok.

After that, something I've been waiting for happened. 4 bulan menunggu dan Allah kabulkan doa kami. I got pregnant again. Alhamdulillah. Dulu i plan nak buat entries about my pregnancy mcm blog2 org lain. Tapi entah kenapa rasa tak nak cerita, rasa tak larat, rasa takut, rasa macam2 lagi. So semuanya pendam je lah and share serba sikit di twitter. InsyaAllah ada masa nanti, I will write about benda2 interesting and anything informative about my pregnancy.

I pray hard my baby akan lahir dengan mudah, sihat sempurna fizikal dan mentalnya, cantik rupa parasnya, soleh serta solehah. Another 10 weeks to go kalau ikut EDD. Kalau ikut Abang Eimaan yang lahir at 38 weeks, means another 8 weeks to go. ;)

30 weeks pregnancy

How Eimaan successfully well-seated on his car seat..

Today i would like to share with all mommies on how i managed to get Eimaan well-seated on his car seat..here in Malaysia, i believe most parents still do not know the important to put your babies in a car seat..we have no law against it..Malaysian still prefer to hold baby on their lap, on the front seat without seat belt, kids below 6 or 5 years old happily standing at the center or even worst put their head outside the window in a moving car..hmm.(i used to do that when i was a kid..suka perasaan angin menampar nampar muka ni..and nganga mulut luas-luas makan angin..)..hmm

You say u drive carefully..but what if a child/a reckless motorcyclist/a cat/a dog/etc etc suddenly cross the road in front of u..or what if there's a big hole on the road..and what if..lotsss of what if..Malang tidak berbau bukan?? You say 'Ala ini jalan kampung aja'..OR..'Ala dekat je kedainye setakat 10min tak payah la nak duduk dalam carseat'..etc etc..hmm

Okay now talking about Eimaan, being a super active boy, its not easy to handle him..he's active since his 1st day in this world..ha..nampak beno menipunye kan..Ha..what i can say is, he's not an easy boy..like i remember to feel scared to bring him out after tamat tempoh berpantang dulu..risau dia menangis..he's a boy yang tak boleh duduk diam setempat lama-lama..kalau keluar, pasti makan pun rasa tak tenang sbb dia akan menangis, etc etc..hubby sgt fobia!Bila tgk anak orang, Eh rilex nye dia bawak anak dia ke mana-mana..Diam aja anak dia..Kalau didukung pun rilex nya tak meronta ronta spt Eimaan..with Eimaan it's like a DREAM..berdoa kami hubby n wifey agar Eimaan cepat besar..;)

Eh sudah melalut ke mana hala..continue tentang car seat..ok, so being a first time parent, i believed car seat is a very essential thing to buy..in fact it was the first thing i bought for my baby during pregnancy..masa tu dalam hati kata, my baby mesti baik budaknya, duduk diam dalam car seat, dalam stroller, tidur dalam baby cot, tidur bilik asing..eh!!berangan..;) Whatever it is, itulah benda wajib ada..sebab masa tu i tau that baby and me gonna live in Putrajaya berdua..jadi siapa mau pegang bila nak hantar ke nursery? siapa mau pegang if we need to go to clinic? etc etc.. Susah bagaimana wajib train dari baby..

Eimaan first time duduk dalam car seat ialah masa umurnya beberapa hari(dalam pantang)..we traveled back to my hometown in IPOH..tapi sekejap-sekejap saja..being a typical Malaysian, i juga asyik dukung my baby kerana dia menangis duduk dalam tu..sampai hubby pun kata tak guna je beli sbb Eimaan tak mahu duduk..Kemudian after pantang, i mula drive sendiri from my house to MIL's house which is 10-15mins drive..sebab boring duduk rumah..at that time, that car seat was in rear-facing(because of baby's age) and was put at the passenger seat at the back..bayangkan..sorang2 dia duduk kat belakang tak nampak mommy dia..harus la nangis kan..kalau nak keluar/balik dari rumah MIL i had to make sure dia sudah cukup tidur..there are times dia akan menangis menjerit kuat-kuat sepanjang sampai rumah tu..when Eimaan is almost 4 months, MIL suggested to put the car seat in front sebab kesian kan dia..kami juga sudah perlu pulang ke Putrajaya at that time..;(

Begitulah seterusnya..consistently put him on the car seat despite of the crying and screaming..Im proud of myself sebab berjaya buat Eimaan tau yang dia perlu duduk di situ everytime we travel by car..despite of hubby's lack of support sometimes, selalu kata Eh tak perlulah bawa car seat, dia bukan nak duduk dalam tu pun..tapi berkat kesabaran i yang sentiasa terus menerus letak kan dia di dalam tu, walaupun kadang dia menangis meronta-ronta dan sebagainya, sekarang tak ada masalah lagi..our journey always smooth with him sleeping all the way inside his car seat..dia sudah tak minta dikeluarkan unless sometimes he got over excited lihat his cousins at the back ramai-ramai..dia mahu join sekali di belakang..but usually i wont let him la..;)

Eimaan 1 and a half month

Eimaan 1 year and 8 months

So mommies out there, kalau boleh cubalah train anak dari kecil lagi untuk duduk dalam car seat ya..also bear in mind, car seat adalah TAK ADA MAKNA if you just put your baby on it but did'nt properly latch on the seat belt OR/AND did'nt install the car seat correctly..if u feel baby's car seat is way too expensive to buy, try buy this for alternative..cuma ianya tak sesuai digunakan oleh baby yang belum boleh duduk..

VR Babies-Car Seat Pouch: Rasa nak beli juga letak dalam daddy's car

Supplement for my baby..

Once Eimaan reached 1 year old, dengan berkobar-kobar nya, mommy Eimaan fikir pasal supplement..HAHA..as a mom, semua mahu yang terbaik buat anak betul? Tak pernah dengar pula supplement for babies below 1 year..kalau ada let me know okay..;) maybe boleh bagi for 2nd baby nanti ;) Well as i promised before, im going to write about EXAMO in this entry..

Seperti SALINDAH, EXAMO juga merupakan persediaan homopati khasnya untuk minda..Antara kelebihan EXAMO ni ialah mencerdaskan akal, menguatkan ingatan, menguatkan daya berfikir, menambahkan tenaga mental, menenangkan fikiran, menambahkan kosentrasi dan menimbulkan minat belajar..EXAMO ni can be taken as early as 1 year old..that is why i quickly bought this bila Eimaan cukup setahun..

Mommy Eimaan sendiri pernah makan EXAMO ni masa mahu ambil UPSR dulu..HAHA..dengan harapan boleh cerdas sikit otak ni..tapi kalau sudah tahun itu hendak ambil peperiksaan besar baru nak terhegeh-hegeh ambil supplimen kecerdasan otak, mana maunye! But i really could feel the good effects back then..rasa lebih bertenaga untuk study, rasa lebih rajin, etc..Jadi untuk Eimaan, i want to start early on him..bagi makanan untuk otak dia..

Other than EXAMO, I also give Scott's Emulsion pada Eimaan..Scott's Emulsion ni mengandungi cod liver oil which is a natural source of Omega-3, Vit A & D, Calcium and Phosphorus.. It helps children to build their natural body resistance to infections like coughs and colds and develop strong bones and teeth during their growing years...For those yang hantar anak ke nursery sgt bagus lah rasanya..But just to be frank, i bagi Eimaan pun ON and OFF..HAHA..Just recently i baru betul-betul bagi balik..padahal sudah beli lama dah..;)

So far, dua ini saja lah supplement Eimaan..Kalau mommies out there ada suggestion lain for kid's supplement, share with me okay..

Seronok balik kampung tapi sedih sbb jatuh sakit..;(

Last week, the three of us, Hubby, Eimaan n me balik kampung..ipoh la mana lagi, tanah tumpah darahku..;) it's been 6 months since our last visit..the last time, i spent 3 weeks in ipoh jaga my sis berpantang..puas duduk ipoh lama sampai rindu pula pada hubby masa tu..heheh..this time, hubby tak dapat cuti lama pun, jadi la dapat 4 hari 4 mlm..earlier on, my sis n me dah plan siap-siap bila nak balik so we can gather ramai-ramai..i pun tersangat lah miss kat my buchuk-buchuk si debab Ayra Sophea, my only niece (my side)..

So last Wednesday morning kami dah gerak dari rumah..we planned to singgah di KL and do some shopping..Alhamdulillah, mission accomplished!! HAHA..Mommy yg melebih..padahal nothing much pun for mommy but still i was so happy dapat spent quality time with hubby and eimaan..t'was like our getaway juga la dari normal routine di BP kan..Matlamat utama ialah barang-barang Eimaan..Like always, the journey was smooth with Eimaan slept all the way from BP-KL..I almost think if im still working, i could travel together with Eimaan from Putrajaya - Batu Pahat..HAHA..ok past is past..;) Ingat bila dia sudah cukup tidur, he would behave tapi entah kenapa tetap tak duduk diam when we reached Mid Valley..i chose Mid Valley because itulah shopping complex yang i sangat familiar..rasa mudah di situ..in fact, jika kami mahu tidur di KL pun, i would choose Cititel to sleep over..Dalam pada tak duduk diam tu, dapat juga lunch di Nando's walaupun dalam keadaan cepat-cepat..Eimaan sudah tarik meja, jerit-jerit..ahhh, hubby memang tak boleh tahan tu semua..After that, changed Eimaan's diaper..walaupun belum berat lagi, biar dia selesa and tak meragam..Seterusnya beli barang-barang semua..By 5pm, sudah masuk kereta buat susu Eimaan, he already asked for his bear..hurmm..Again he fell asleep once we were on the road and slept all the way from KL-Ipoh..

while daddy fitting baju
We reached Ibu's home around 8pm..after freshened up, we went out for dinner near the house..makan simple-simple then balik dah penat and tidur awal..my sis arrived around 11pm but Eimaan n me already on the bed..we met the next morning..dapat la jumpa si tembam debab Ayra..sgt geram okay dengan die..what a good, soft and cute gegurl..tapi kesian dia demam..Eimaan macam tak kesah sgt i hold Ayra..sometimes je dia macam jealous..Eimaan macam okay juga dengan semua di Ipoh..tapi kerap juga buat perangai..suka menjerit, itu yang paling tak tahan..Ibu masak best, rosak my DIET!! And kami makan di luar juga beramai-ramai..seronoknya..walaupun dengan perangai Eimaan yang tak memberangsangkan itu..haihh..(uoll get the picture or not tentang perangai Eimaan, mommy nye asyik kata Eimaan nakal je kann!!) Entahla, siapa dapat anak super-active pasti tahu perasaan ni..;)

si comel ayra sophea
Unfortunately, dalam keseronokan ni, baby Ayra demam and been infected with HAND, FOOT & MOUTH DISEASE(HFMD)..Luckily tak teruk sebab bawa ke klinik awal..tp kami semua terlupa yang Eimaan could get infected from Ayra..there was one time masa Ayra bergolek2 atas tilam, Eimaan pun sama-sama cuba nak main dengan Ayra, dengan slumber nye Eimaan pun ambil pacifier Ayra dan masukkan dalam mulut dia..being a baby without pacifier, i laughed at him..macam comel..until my sis yang ingatkan takut Eimaan jangkit..Dengan sgt cepat nya penyakit ni berjangkit, the next day when we busily packing untuk balik ke BP, Eimaan mula lemah and panas..When i checked his temperature, the reading was 38.8'c..cepat-cepat kami siap dan terus berangkat pulang sebab mahu singgah ke klinik..jenuh mencari child specialist clinic, akhirnya ke poliklinik biasa sahaja..our long-known Dr. Jaspal then inserted the med into the anus and gave antibiotic orally right away..and yes, it works like miracle when Eimaan ceria and bubbly again after an hour..

ayra dah ada bintik-bintik merah bawah mulut, tangan and kaki
That night his temperature increased again and i continue gave his fever med and antibiotic..Up until yesterday, it's been 3 days and semalam juga baru timbul bintik-bintik merah di bawah mulut, tangan dan kaki Eimaan...sgt kesian..he lost his appetite, apa pun tak mahu makan..nak pergi klinik, daddy Eimaan ke Segamat meeting jadi baru hari ni dapat ke klinik..This morning kami ke klinik pakar yang biasa kami pergi since Eimaan dalam hari lagi..Dr Lam checked and bagi tahu memang Eimaan dijangkiti that HFMD and ada ulcer dalam mulut Eimaan..no wonder dia tak mahu makan..Doc hanya bagi medigel (sapu di lidah bagi rasa kebas, so he wont feel the pain masa makan)..Doc also said that Eimaan is actually recovering, the disease is actually heal on its own..miracle..jadi i hanya sapu calamine lotion supaya Eimaan rasa sejuk and selesa, pasang aircond di rumah dan selepas sapu medigel tersebut barulah hari ni mahu juga Eimaan makan 2 keping biskut hup seng cicah milo dan 6 suap nasi lauk ayam dan sup sayur..

kemain susah nak amik pic dia..ada bintik2 bawah mulut
Rasanya kalau MIL ada ni, pasti Eimaan dah kena berasap sebab MIL pasti kata Eimaan kena campak..;) orang tua mmg begitu, pelbagai petua org lama2..;) Semoga baby mommy cepat sembuh and terus active like always..;)

Disastrous confinement period..

I always thought i will be 'skema' in terms of confinement..i read a lot..and i knew kalau kita berpantang elok-elok, kesannya baik di hari tua kelak..BUT..things happened..HAHA..yes, i know some of you mommies really enjoy confinement period, but not me!!i dont know..maybe because it was my 1st time..maybe at that time i was still adapting having new routine, new person to look after, etc..I really dont have time to look after myself..;(

To start with, I spent my 44days confinement period at 3 places..18 days at MIL's (Batu Pahat)..8 days at my house (Batu Pahat) and the rest at my mom's house in Ipoh..see..being jump here and there during confinement was bad enough..why these 3 places??1stly, it was my decision to deliver baby and confine in Batu Pahat where husband is near..BUT..being me, i cant stay at 1 place for a long time..i got bored..i mean, i am the person yang tak boleh duduk diam..am not a homey type..i suka keluar..when suddenly i kena duduk setempat at unfamiliar house, i got so stressful..Note: MIL's house was unfamiliar because i lived in Putrajaya ever since i got married..i only came on some weekends for tea..i boleh kira dgn jari berapa kali je i naik tingkat 2 tu..and yes now i sudah jadi homey type..not because i like it, tapi terpaksa..hehe..practice makes perfect..bolehh??

Berpantang di rumah MIL okay..MIL sgt baik and rajin membantu..malah, she did almost everything to make me feel at home..she was super excited having new grandson after 10 years..cucu lelaki terakhir sudah 10thn..selepas tu, berderet cucu perempuan saja..makan semuanya MIL masak..ape je yg MIL masak, i makan tak banyak songeh..cuma, MIL msk mcm org tak berpantang..sedap-sedap..lalu mmg tak boleh kurus la..HAHA..ikan tenggiri msk berempah, masak lada hitam, sup..ada few types of fish lg i cant remember..hati lembu berempah..sayur sawi, carrot, tauhu..BEST OKAY..i dapat mak mertua yg TAK skema..*wink wink*

Berbengkung, ON and OFF..first three days mmg pakai betul sebab bidan yg pakaikan..panas..rimas..lepas tu MIL yg pakaikan..kadang2 after shower, nanti MIL akan panggil dari bawah tanya, mahu mami pakaikan bengkung ke?..nanti i turun dengan tersengih2, hari ni tak payah la ek ;)..MIL: HA, curi barut..but ok lah..tak marah pun!! Berurut- first three days and once after seminggu pantang..thats all..hanya 4 kali...Itu saja..NO bertangas, berpilis, bertungku..Bad isn't it??

macam ni la bengkung i pakai - photo: Mr Google

We slept at MIL's room every night..because hers is an air-conditioned room while room she prepared previously kipas sahaja..the 1st night there, she came and offer us to sleep in her room sbb kesian Eimaan panas..hehe..and of course i would jump on that offer kan..tahula orang berpantang ni panas woo..the best part, my MIL was very kind and thoughtful..setiap mlm bila Eimaan terjaga dia akan bangun sama tolong change diaper, tolong dodoikan..sama2 kami bertiga, MIL, Hubby and Me take turn dodoikan Eimaan..Siangnya, MIL yg byk membantu basuhkan baju, jemur baju, i cuma tolong lipat saja..Eimaan pun dia mandikan, siapkan, etc..

When Eimaan been suspected jaundice, she and my husband brought Eimaan to hospital so i can rest at home..after a week she saw me became wearier, she suggested for hubby to take me out pusing2 town..duduk dalam kereta aja..;) dapatla dating! hehe..after 2 weeks, she even let me went out to salon for HAIR REBONDING..HAHA...But yeah after 18 days, we both hubby and me decided to be independent and stay at our house which was 10mins from MIL's..at my house, i had to do everything on my own..it was my first time mandikan Eimaan on his 18days..lebih letih rupanya bila di rumah sendirian..after few days sudah tak tahan and called my mom bagi tahu yang i nak stay Ipoh pulak after Raya Puasa 2010 tu..sepatutnya i mmg tak akan balik Raya tu, ingatnya selepas habis pantang baru balik..tapi sebab pemikiran ni yg asyik berubah-ubah..

A day before raya, i kena bengkak susu/demam urat/bentan..luckily, ubat doctor tu agak power and kuasa Allah, the next day nya i sihat seperti sediakala..Lepas makan nasi himpit pagi raya tu, bersalam-salaman, off we went back to Ipoh..Eimaan first long journey..balik beraya di Ipoh makan nasi beriani ibu masak..yumm..and after few days, hubby balik ke BP tinggal kan Eimaan n me di Ipoh..MENANGIS ;( Again i buat everything on my own coz my mom's working..after 1 week juga tak tahan and called hubby utk bawa balik ke BP..MENGADA KAN..EII MENYAMPAH BETUL BILA INGAT PERANGAI BUROK NI!!

What a long 'essay' i wrote here..apapun, please dont scold me atas kejahilan i berpantang..i promise to myself, i akan berpantang terbaik punya for 2nd baby nanti..PEACE..;)

i ambil Set Bersalin Nona Roguy..tak abis pun..membazir je..

p.s: lupa nak cerita, i ingat i sudah terlepas..sekali i balik Ipoh, my stepdad lagi super-skema..hehe..kena sound dgn stepdad kenapa tak pakai stokin..kenapa tak pakai pilis..kenapa tak ikat rambut tinggi..and the list went on..he's so conventional i baru tahu..but in a good way lar, it was because he CARES..;)

Eimaan is a baby SALINDAH

Siapa pernah dengar tentang SALINDAH?

SALINDAH ni merupakan makanan kesihatan(supplement) dan rawatan bagi ibu hamil hingga selepas bersalin (habis pantang). Ianya dihasilkan mengikut kaedah perubatan HOMEOPATI, BIOKIMIA DAN HERBALISME. Formulanya dikeluarkan oleh Allahyarham Prof. Dr. Azizan Haji Ismail dan mula diperkenalkan kepada masyarakat sejak tahun 1980 lagi.

In my case, i did'nt take the complete set sampai pantang tapi sampai sebelum bersalin saja..SALINDAH ni memang dah glamour dalam my family..15-16 years ago, kalau tak silap, my grandma la yg introduced this product to my aunt yg masa tu tgh pregnant anak sulung..and kami yang masih bersekolah ni di baginya pulak makan EXAMO..ok nanti kite cerita pasal EXAMO..My mom juga ambil supplement SALINDAH ni semasa pregnant my lil brother Tengku Imran Isaac (8 years old)..

Apa yang i nampak kesan SALINDAH ni..obviously my lil brother sgt lah aktif and bijak since baby..so was my cousin yg tadi i mentioned pasal my aunt yg ambil SALINDAH ni..i also remembered my mom told me that her 4th/LAST pregnancy(Imran) ni, rasa sgt berbeza compared to the first three pregnancies..rasa lebih bertenaga and sangat mudah bersalin..

SO..bila i dpt tau i pregnant je, immediately i decided to take this supplement too..SALINDAH ni start makan masa kandungan berusia 3 bulan/12 weeks or can say when we reach our 2nd trimester..1stly, my O&G doc dah awal-awal pesan jgn ambil supplement yang tah ape2..risau it'll be harmful for baby inside..2nd, bila i tanya pendapat org luar, kwn2, facebook, ada yang puji produk ni dan ada yang kata produk ni tak baik (which i rasa mostly, org yg ckp baik tu yg mmg pernah guna or ada kenalan yg guna manakala yg ckp tak baik tu mostly mmg tak pernah guna lansung hanya dengar khabar2 berita saja..jadi tak boleh salahkan sesiapa la kan..pendapat org kita kena ambil juga..mereka hanya menyampaikan apa yg mereka tau)..At the end, i decided utk teruskan juga dengan SALINDAH, tak bagi tau lansung pada doc sampai sudah..baik doc private mahupun kerajaan..lansung tak cerita..i just tawakkal and yakin pada produk tu.

Alhamdulillah..tak tau lah disebabkan ubat tu atau genetically, i tak ada alahan teruk dari awal mengandung hingga ke hujungnya...kuasa Allah..syukur sgt, dalam keadaan bekerja dan hidup sendirian di Putrajaya, dapat juga tempuhi tempoh mengandung tu dgn jayanya..bukan tak ada muntah and pening lansung..ada juga, contoh kalau travelling jauh..bumpy roads..awal-awal ada juga tak boleh bau itu ini, cuma tak ada muntah teruk-teruk la..muntah manje2 je..=) badan rasa sihat and kuat..drive back-forth Putrajaya-Batu Pahat almost every weekend..selalu pergi shopping sorang2 di Alamanda berejam2..berjaya setelkan kursus induksi di Pulau Pangkor on my 25th weeks of pregnancy..i yakin semua ni pun Allah bantu..

Syukur Alhamdulillah juga Eimaan Harith selamat dilahirkan walaupun ada sikit komplikasi..mungkin juga SALINDAH ni dah bagi my baby aktif sgt sampai masa dah nak bersalin tu dia boleh beralih pulak namun masih berjaya bersalin normal..malah tempoh labor pun dalam 3jam saja yang betul2 unbearable..kira cepatlah kan? and bersalinnya pun 10hari awal dari tarikh due..Eimaan juga dikategorikan baby yang kuat..pada usia 3hari, bidan urut terkejut masa mandikan Eimaan, kaki dia boleh berdiri tegap (dlm keadaan berpaut atas lengan bidan) dalam bath tub sedangkan most babies tak boleh kata bidan tu..mereka kata baby SALINDAH ni tulangnya kuat..kulit nya bersih..otaknya bijak dan aktif..

Entah bagaimana bahagian i jika mengandung lagi.masih beruntung kah?atau akan diduga dengan alahan2, lemah dan sebagainya..Adakah i akan ambil SALINDAH lagi jika mengandung kali ke-2? Entah.belum decide.;)

Jom kita tgk set SALINDAH ni..

Peringkat Sebelum Bersalin



Salindah-Ceraian B1
Masa Guna: Mulai minggu ke-12 hamil
Khasiat:
Memberi zat besi mudah hadam yang diperlukan oleh setiap ibu mengandung. Menghilang atau mengurangkan muntah dan loya serta alahan. Menolong tumbesaran tian. Mencegah demam, batuk, selsema, sejuk-sejuk, sakit kepala, sakit gigi dan lain-lain. Menghilangkan kesan jatuh atau rebah. Melancarkan aliran darah agar mencegah timbul simpul urat di kaki. Menghilangkan letih lesu.

Salindah-Ceraian B2
Masa Guna: Mulai minggu ke-24 hamil
Khasiat:
Memberi zat untuk tumbesaran tian, menguatkan tulang dan membina otak tian, disamping menambah darah. Menambah selera makan, menghilangkan sengal tulang dan kebas anggota kaki dan tangan. Mencegah serangan sejuk dan sakit gigi. Mencegah osteoporosis.

Salindah-Ceraian B3
Masa Guna: Mulai minggu ke-28 hamil
Khasiat:
Memberi zat untuk pembinaan saraf dan otak anak. Menghilangkan masalah takut, cemas dan bimbang. Mencegah simpul biawak atau krem betis. Mendatangkan ketenangan bagi menghadapi had bersalin.

Catatan:
lbu yang menggunakan Salindah dari item B1 (bermula dari 12 minggu hamil) akan memperolehi anak yang sihat, segar, pintar cerdas, keras tulang dan gigi, subur tumbesaran tubuh, dan sukar didatangi penyakit, Insya’Allah.

Salindah-Ceraian B4
Masa Guna: Mulai 4 minggu sebelum bersalin
Khasiat:
Remedi ini istimewa untuk mengawal alamat sebelum jangkaan alamat palsu, menghilangkan sakit bersalin, sakit urat dan otot, menyediakan saluran peranakan dengan mengendur dan menganjalkan otot-otot pencerut kawasan saluran peranakan. Memudahkan kelahiran bayi. Menghilangkan perasaan takut dan cemas.

Salindah-Ceraian B5
Masa Guna: Mulai 2 minggu sebelum bersalin
Khasiat:
Remedi ini melanjutkan dan menolong tindakan item B4, mengendur dan menganjalkan otot pencerut saluran peranakan dan memberi daya teranan labour sewaktu bersalin.

Salindah-Ceraian B6
Masa Guna: Mulai 1 minggu sebelum bersalin atau semasa dalam ‘labour pain’
Khasiat:
Remedi ini menguatkan teranan, menolong mengurangkan sakit sewaktu bersalin, mempercepatkan dan mempermudahkan keluarnya anak, membuka luas saluran peranakan dan mengurangkan sakit lepas bersalin.

Catatan:
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p.s: i tak ada apape share pun dengan company ni, membership pun tak..i just share my experience using this product..=)

Tragedi Januari 2012

It was Tuesday, 10 January 2012..

Both Eimaan and me were in the wet kitchen..i did the dishes when there was honking in front..it was the weekly cleaner and she was a bit early than usual..Eimaan was sitting on the floor playing plastic cups..I wiped my hands and rushed out to open the door when he as expected followed behind me but tripped and fell down..I pull him up and this was one of the unforgettable moments in my whole life when i saw the skin above his left brow was gaped open and blood trickled along his cheeks..even worst, i could see his white skull inside..menangis nya usah tanya la..mesti dia sgt sakit..i carried him to the front and had panic attack..with the honking outside the gate, the blood, the cries, i could'nt think straight at that moment..with shaky hands i managed to call my husband..he was like 'what happen?how?when?'..i just said 'balik cepat..KEPALA EIMAAN DAH PECAH NI'..and he..entahla, bayangkan aje la mcm mana pecut nye dia.

Then only i pushed the auto-gate button and called for help with hand gesture..there were many of them inside the van and they came rushing inside..lagi soalan bertubi2 macam mana boleh jadi..masa tu i dah menangis-nangis sambil dukung Eimaan yang menangis..they asked me to open the grill so they could help..again i terkocoh-kocoh ambil kunci, opened the grill dan minta mereka ambilkan tisu and kain..they offered to send us to the hospital but i refused saying my husband is on the way..luckily husband's office and home is just 10 minutes drive..again and again they offered but i had to refuse..bila i tekapkan kain di dahi Eimaan, he cried even louder..i passed Eimaan to one of the maid and ran inside the bedroom and changed to proper blouse, pant and tudung..i knew the maids got other job to do, so i said okayla, u all can go..i boleh tunggu my husband.dengan serba salah all the maids pun pergi..with Eimaan on my arm, i started to pack his bag, his milk and locked all the doors and windows..hubby arrived in less than 10mins since i called, and of course was shocked looking at Eimaan..but Eimaan actually has stopped crying 5mins ago..

If im not mistaken, we reached Emergency, Pantai Hospital after 20 minutes since Eimaan fell down..we rushed him inside and he started screaming looking at those unfamiliar stranger faces..no choices, but they swaddled him with the blanket, masukkan ubat tahan sakit, and cleaned his wound..doc tanya lots of question but i can't concentrate and tahan mata dari nangis..but of course i managed to answer every Q's..then they put plaster on Eimaan..done!

DONE??No no..not done yet..of course there will be stitches involved..since it was very deep cut and Eimaan being super active boy, they had to do minor operation.in the OT..hubby did all the papers and we admit in paediatric ward..i changed Eimaan to hospital gown while lovely and super-nice nurses came in and out giving things and masukkan tiub air on Eimaan's hand..hubby kena balik ambil hospital card Eimaan, my handphone, Eimaan's TEDDY BEAR, and other necessity.

4 pm..Eimaan on my lap and i was on the wheelchair, pushed by the nurse to the OT..URGHH,OT for the second time.and yeah, MIL, SIL and niece were there too..talking about MIL, sampai je mereka mommy Eimaan mata dah bergenang tak tau kenapa..maybe sbb finally got someone to share my worries..and kena sound juga sebab Eimaan jatuh..sobs sobs..mana de mak yang sengaja nak anak die sakit kan ;( ..but i understand org tua mmg macam tu..sgt risaukan cucu..(jgn salah faham, MIL pya sound tu ala2 perli je tp paham2 sendiri la)..sampai depan OT, i kena changed to OT gown and crocs..kena masuk temankan Eimaan..mula-mula mmg meronta la, semua nurse kena pegang, then the specialist doc bagi gas untuk tidokan Eimaan..kesian nye masa tu..bergenang lg air mata..at 5pm operation done! Alhamdulillah doc kata nothing serius cuma the cut mmg very deep..luckily tak kena skull.

Eimaan's daddy punya 1st worry ialah SCAR..risau anaknye dah tak handsome..;)

After all, i blamed myself for everything because Eimaan masih kecil..die tak tau ape.all he knows is running around.as a parent, kita yg patut provide a safe place for our babies and tots.lepas tu baru terhegeh-hegeh beli all the child proofing, but after a while, all did'nt work and terbukak..hurmm..blur dah dgn child proof..

If this happening to u, doctor pesan TEKAPKAN KAIN PADA LUKA TERSEBUT AGAR KUMAN TAK MASUK..
Dont PANIC of course and i hope and wish none of you will encounter this kind of situation..JGN LEPAS PANDANG ON OUR KIDS..;)

P.S:entry yg ambil masa 1 week..punyela malas.


the wound terpaksa diblurkan kerana rupa asalnya agak mengerikan


tempat kejadian-in between wet and dry kitchen


evening after operation-still in sleeping dose


night after operation-still mamai dengan bius

Eimaan & Cloth Diapers

I sendiri masih belajar mengenai CD ni..tentang cara 'handling' nya, jenis-jenis nya and masih ingin mencuba pelbagai jenis brand so that we can compare which one better..just to share with u guys, Eimaan got his first CD from his nina(my ibu) as a gift..she gave it to me since i was 7 months pregnant..brand-COOLABABY..2 pieces CD in blue and green..so cute..masa tu i masih blur mcm mana la nak guna CD ni..macam menyusahkan je nak basuh semua..at the same time, i juga dpt feedback from friends yg mmg guna CD ni on their babies..semua cakap bagus, save duit, selamat, etc..

Therefore, i bought more of it..i did'nt start early on Eimaan sebab rasa macam besar je CD tu walaupun dah adjust to smallest size..if im not mistaken i started when he was 5-6 months..once tried, mmg sgt suka..cuma mmg terlalu byk 'M' inside that made me 'on' and 'off'..'on' nye sekejap..'off' nye lama.hihi..bila 'on' balik tu, mula la menambah lagi..so total Eimaan dah ada 7 pieces of CD..6 pieces of COOLABABY and 1 piece of Autumnz..and a roll of Grovia liner..lepas tu 'off' balik for a long time and now 'on' balik..haii nasib la Eimaan dapat mommy yg mcm ni..

Memandangkan dah nak 'on' balik berCD ni, in fact this time azam lebih kuat nak FULLY CD (moga-moga tercapai la kali ni), mula la balik episod surf online baby shop to find better range of CD..last night i slept at 2am surfing internet..more infos yang i dapat mengenai CD ni..

Rupa-rupanya ada pelbagai jenis CD..i hanya kenal pocket diaper je..


1. ALL IN TWO (AI2)

Ramai mommies yg pengguna tegar CD (on their baby not them okay..hihi) bagi feedback that this is the best..WHY?

All in Two Diapers have 2 basic parts - a waterproof layer and an exchangeable absorbent layer that lays on top of the waterproof cover.

When the diaper is soiled, the dirty soaker can simply be exchanged for a clean soaker and the waterproof outer reused.

This means a compact system that is great for out and about with baby and reduces your laundry size.
Source: Tiny Tapir

So, unlike normal pocket diaper yang i guna currently, dengan AI2, outer dia boleh digunakan balik cuma tukar soaker yang lapisan atas tu saja..manakala pocket diaper biasa, kena tukar keseluruhannya..sebab AI2 tak guna insert tapi sejenis absorbent layer yang boleh ditukar..tetapi diingatkan juga, waterproof layer yang bawah tu digunakan dalam dua kali sahaja for hygenic reason..;)


2. ALL IN ONE (AIO)

All in One Diapers mean just that - it's exactly like a disposable diaper with a waterproof layer, absorbent layers in the middle and a stay dry layer against baby's skin.

Some AIOs have the option of a pocket to add extra soakers to boost absorbency.
Source: Tiny Tapir

This type pula macam disposable diapers yang kita guna tu la, cuma material nya ialah CLOTH..


3. POCKET (ONE SIZED)

A Pocket is a waterproof outer layer and an inner layer of microfleece or suede (to keep baby feeling dry).

There's an opening either in the back or front of the the diaper to insert soakers of your choice, so you choose the absorbency of the diaper.
Source: Tiny Tapir

Pocket (ONE SIZED) ni pula merangkumi waterproof outer, inner dari material microfleece/suede dan ade macam pocket untuk kita masukkan 'insert' dia..Jadi untuk baby yang heavy wetter tu bolehlah pakai 2 inserts or 1 insert+1 hemp..depends pada keperluan..;) Dan kenapa pula 'ONE SIZED'? Sebab button2 yang banyak2 pada CD tu kita boleh adjust untuk size S,M,L,XL..Sampai our tots dah nak potty training boleh pakai..SAVE KANN??


OK, jom tengok collection CD Eimaan.


lovess the bright colors..;)



Grovia Liner



letak mcm ni ok..tak tau la kalau mommies semua ada cara lain ;)



comot belemuih nye anak mommy.;)


Eimaan punya 7 keping aje? Mana cukup nak fully CD kan..So, after survey punya survey last night, i've decided to buy Rumparooz and Bumgenius..Mommies semua kalau ader suggestions brand apa lagi yang best, lemme know kay, TQ.;)

Flashback: First time masuk OT

Alhamdulillah..Eimaan Harith safely delivered on 10.16pm, 15 August 2010..After doc cut his umbilical cord, they brought him away..tak puas jumpa baby..but my labor was not done yet..there was still another task i had to do which was to pushed out the 'uri'..huhhh..ingat dah bertarung nyawa berejam dah sudah..to push out the uri tak la susah, doc helped me by tekan2 dekat perut tu...then zzuuppp keluar..rasa lega..tak sakit ape pun okay..yang sakit tu masa contraction, i could'nt imagine koyak down there, but i did'nt feel a thing..tak sakit pun..BUT..once doc pegang jarum and started the stitching, i was like jerk jerk and jerk..boleh rasa okay..sgt tak best..i thought it was over until suddenly doc told me i had lots of koyakan inside..it can't be done here with me jerking constantly..the koyakan happened when baby struggled inside to come out..i was like 'WHAT..WHAT ELSE DO I HAVE TO ENDURE..I CANT POSSIBLY BEAR THE PAIN ANYMORE..;('..doc said, 'okay dont worry..we'll do it in OT(Operation Theater)..u wont feel any pain cuz we'll give u anesthetic to make u paralyzed from waist downwards..i said yeah..as long i tak rasa sakit lagi..;)

Meanwhile, i looked on my right where hubby held the baby..there was a nurse in front of them..i found out later that hubby was reciting azan on baby's ears at that time and hubby was crying while azan..owww..so syahdu..rugi tak dapat dengar..

At 11pm that night, nurses pushed me out on the stretcher..there were my family-in-laws outside..MIL,SIL,BIL and nieces..i smiled and waved at them..they pushed me to the OT and awaiting was a surgery team..they asked me lots of Q such as any allergy, etc..pakar bius then gave the injection di tulang belakang (macam epidural)..few minutes later, i cant feel anything waist downwards and doc started his work. Meanwhile i chit-chatted with the assistants, that doc pakar bius, bla bla bla menyembang...macam2 kami sembang.. i dont know why i hyper satu macam..i supposed to be worn out and sleepy kan..tapi i bersembang mcm kt kedai kopi...very sporting all the assistants..rupenye that was their procedure to keep me awake during the surgery..;)

Everything was done at 12am..it's been 2 hours since i last saw my baby..in fact i have'nt met him properly..hubby waited in our room..nurse put me on my bed..MISTAKE AGAIN: I SHOULD ASK FOR MY BABY..I SHOULD NURSE HIM RIGHT AWAY ..again, i sgt la blur being 1st timer.i tried to sleep but i was hyper, active n segar..i updated fb status..i chit-chatted with hubby sampai hubby pun dah mengantuk..i cant sleep, i felt hot (due from the anesthetic)..when the nurse came to checked me at 3am, i asked her to sejukkan lagi bilik tu..hubby sgt sejuk and i gave him my blanket..i cant remember when i finally fall asleep but i started to feel the pain berdenyut-denyut around 5am..bius dah mula hilang..urghh..

Early morning, i woke up..doc checked my stitches and pulled out the pad he shoved inside me last night..after dah keluarkan pad tu, baru rasa lega sikit..i've been told to walk around, eat my breakfast and have some shower..at 10am the nurse brought my baby in..she urged me to breastfed my baby and the 1st attempt failed..maybe susu masih tak ada and baby did'nt latched on properly..okay, i tak nak panic.i fikir nanti balik boleh cuba lagi..MIL came when it was time to discharge and helped me to hold Eimaan..by noon we arrived at MIL'S house and started my 1st day of confinement..;)



Eimaan first day

You guys nak tau what i've learn from these??

1. Breastfeed your baby right away agar baby dapat colostrum (susu awal lembuibu) yg sgt berkhasiat tu..
2. Minta dari nurse kalau mereka tak bagi (some hospital, nurse mereka dah di ajar untuk terus bagi baby untuk menyusu badan ibu die right after bersalin)
3. If u were on something like my case, kena masuk OT, i tak tau sama ada boleh atau tak, but i should at least ask whether i can breastfeed my baby tak kira la kalau masa tu dah pukul 1 pagi pun..
4. Sebaiknya minta baby every 2 hours untuk disusukan supaya our breast akan dapat rangsangan bg mengeluarkan susu dengan lebih banyak lagi..
5. Bak kata my idol Harlinda Halim, 'breastfeeding is a learning process'..jgn putus asa jika baby tak dapat menyusu betul on our breast..kena ajar dengan sabar..SABAR..

Flashback to Aug 2010-Delivery Day

15 August 2010

11.00 am

It has been 3 days after my doc has told me im 2cm dilated..there were some blood spotted on my panty ever since.it was not much, like when u had your first day of menstrual..three days in row had fingers 'poked' in and out to check dilation..urghhh..dilation was progressing well since the 1st day though there were 1 time the number decreased..i can feel minor contraction every 10 minutes..doc said it was just 1% from the real pain..WHAT?? u'r kidding me rite..it can't be that bad!! Well, wait till you experience it urself..;) And yeah, that morning brought relief to both of us when doc said i was dilated 4-5cm..labor was just around the corner, happy!

1.00 pm

Had lunch..freshen up..packed our bag and relaxed before we go to hospital..

5.00pm

Checked in..we got 1 single bed room with couch.i've been told to change my pant to sarung..i remembered that day i wore hubby's black t-shirt and kain batik..i asked the nurse whether they will give me a hospital gown to wear but they said no..i was like dumbfounded at that time..MISTAKE NO 1: I SHOULD DEMAND A HOSPITAL GOWN/I SHOULD ASK EARLIER WHETHER THEY PROVIDE HOSPITAL GOWN ..it was really uncomfortable with hubby's t-shirt..it was black and hot..if i know that earlier, i will bring my own comfy dress or anything suitable..

My dilation was 5cm..they did CTG on me, i didnt know what that was..but i've been told to push a button on every contractions..my doc came and broke my water..it was clear..no sign of baby's poo or something..it means GOOD..after few minutes i had my water broke, i started to feel the pain of contractions..nurses came and start pasang ape tah..cucuk dekat my wrist..attached a tube..MISTAKE NO 2: IF THEY DONT BOTHER TO TELL YOU WHAT THEY DO TO YOUR BODY, YOU SHOULD ASK OKAY..YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW..i just assumed they were inducing me..induce means drugs..am i right?

The contractions was still building up..and it got worsen as time goes by..i clutched on a hanky my MIL gave for..cant remember why she gave it to me..berpeluh-peluh..hubby was on my side but he cant do anything..i just focused on my pain..

7.00pm

I remember that everyone started busying themselves and got ready to break fast..my contractions was building high..hubby just had some kuih..after Maghrib, the nurse sent me to the labor room..there were only me on labor that evening..so all the nurses 'pakat kerumun' and gave full attention on me..rasa mcm princess..eh, boleh mcm tu?? ;)..dilation now was 6-7cm..belum boleh push yer..tp sakit nye, Allah je yang tau..the contractions felt like we going to pass motion..until at one time tu, during contraction, i shouted that i want to pass motion..the nurse encouraged me to do it and said it was okay..URGHH..lg malu!

8.30pm

Contraction was unbearable..kalau sape tgk i masa tu, mst rasa i macam hantu, berpeluh2, rambut dh gerbang basah sticky macam ape tah...nurse suggested to take that laughing gas..cant remember the scientific name..but i guessed it was helpful..i felt dizzy and high..like u'r on ecstasy..i can smile again..dah lalok la dikatakan..hehe..i sucked in the gas whenever i felt the contraction..sgt baik okay all the nurses..tlg suapkan air..tlg picit pinggang n belakang masa contraction..sgt teruk rasanye masa tu..frequently i remembered my mom..i thought that if she can bear this pain, so do i..t'was kinda motivation to me at that time..i could hear hubby n nurses chit-chatted but my mind was focusing on the pain..t'was like my mind is empty except the reflection of my mom n remembering Allah.

9.30pm

Bla..bla..bla..after almost 4 hours went through the labor pain, finally my doc came after nurse checked that i was fully dilated..10cm..i was very tired at that time and suddenly when i heard that news, i got bersemangat again, time to push..i push whenever i felt the contraction..firstly i was like screaming with my eyes shut..tp nurse cakap jgn push mcm tu..dont scream coz i'll lose my energy..i've been told to open my eyes and focus on my tummy..until today i still dont know whats the relevant of doing so..felt like my eyes gonna pop-out in anytime masa push tu..push push push, baby still tak mau keluar lg..suddenly i heard whispers among the nurses that i might be on C-Section operation because the baby had suddenly turned inside and making it harder for the baby to come out normally..

I found out later that my doc had ask my hubby whether hubby thinks im tough or not to get through this..and hubby so confident in me he said yes..so the doc kept on encouraging me to push all my heart out..and yes, that's what i did and finally at 10.16pm, my baby Eimaan Harith had breathe his first air in this world..:)

10.16pm

Leganya Allah saja yg tahu..macam mengeluarkan satu batu yg besar..(bak kata my SIL, when i asked her how it feels like to give birth..n yes u'r right SIL Leha..i felt the same way too)..Tears and smile on my face..Mulut tak henti mengucapkan syukur ya Allah..the baby was on my tummy while the doc cut his cord..i cant see his face yet, dia baring mengiring membelakangkan i but i remembered i touch his soft slimy skin..oh wow,that was amazing feeling.



Eimaan Harith first photo ;)

Flasback to August 2010-Days before delivery

My due was on 25th August 2010..i knew my baby will come out sooner or later than that..from some of my friends experience, 1st baby would be later..still i insisted to take leave 2 weeks earlier than my due date..1stly, mmg dah tak larat sgt nak keje..2ndly, just to avoid the risk terbersalin awal di putrajaya where hubby n family is not around..Lastly, just want to spend quality time with hubby before the baby come out and of course last minute preparation.. ;)

If im not mistaken, i had to go for check-up once a week started week 36 of my pregnancy..cant' remember when is the exact week baby's head got engaged..but on the 2nd week of August, i started my long maternity leave..baby was just 36 weeks old inside..it was 2 days before Ramadhan and i managed to fast for two days that year..

2nd Ramadhan night, we went check-up with my private O&G, Dr. Kartik..yes it's a HE..;) malu *blush* *blush*..he was my sister in law's O&G too before this and hubby immediatey chose him when we knew i was pregnant..that night on my 37 weeks, my doc checked baby's head and confirmed it was already engaged..and then he said, 'ok, now it's time to check dilation'..okaaayyy, i dont know what that was..but when the nurse ushered me to this diff room with bed this time, i got freaked out..yeahh, i was so blushed..terkepit-kepit..the nurse cakap nanti nak bersalin sama jer..lagi la..huhu..the test was quite painful..but my doc ni sgt la gentle..dgn suara lembutnye..very gentle..and then he said 'done' with smiles on his face..he asked if i had any symptoms, contraction or anything, i said no..i feel very fine and no pain at all..when the three of us, doc , hubby and me finally sat at his table, then only he told us that my opening was 2cm already..*TAKUT + excited*

He started explaining about delivery and episiotomy (lg takuttt)..he also said if my dilation kept on progressing, i will deliver my baby in few days..from that on, i've been told to be alert on any contractions..okayy..next day, i spotted blood on panty..CUAK..that night, jumpa doc lagi..he said my opening 3 cm..but still cannot admit to hospital yet..the next day, again blood on panty..jumpa doc, opening decreased to 2cm..aikk..main2 ye baby..the same day that evening, i spotted blood again but a bit byk dari biase and went to the doc again and the dilation increased 3cm..hurm cannot bersalin lagi..lepak at MIL's house and joined nieces n nephew coloring with crayons.,;)

FINALLY, on the 5th Ramadhan, i remember it was Sunday..2010 Aug 15 morning, the dilation was 4-5cm and i've been asked to 'check-in' at Putra Specialist Hospital at 5pm..yippee.cant wait.i remember the excitement and wished it'll be over soon..sgt tak larat dah okay membawa badan yg berat with sleepless nights due from the back aches..tak tau tu yang once baby dah keluar lagi la tak dapat tido..hihi..

Summary: some people dpt simptom pecah ketuban, some tanda darah..i got the second one..dengarnye, bila pecah ketuban, masa yg diambil utk bersalin akan lebih cepat compare to tanda darah..i took 3 days since i spotted that blood on my panty before i delivered Eimaan Harith..

OK.end of story before delivery..gonna write entry about 'during labor' once im free..;) * LOVE LOVE *



Putra Specialist Hospital Batu Pahat

New blog, New entry

Hi mommies..

This is my second blog after my magical moments.. I created this blog solely to share issues regarding mommyhood, my kid's development and some of my personal views..

Let me introduce myself..im a mommy of 19 months cheeky-boy named Eimaan Harith..a wifey to a wonderful husband..and that's a three of us..yeah..and still counting..not like there's already a baby inside but yes, we want MORE!! InsyaAllah..

Im a fulltime housewife..used to work as a System Analyst in Ministry of Education..tendered resignation after 5 months having lil Eimaan..yeah, that was my sacrifice..Alhamdulillah, a year has passed and im coping well with this new status..Thanks Allah for making it happen..

For now my focus is 100% hubby and baby..

Gonna catch up with ya'll later..

Mental Note: Im not good in writing..i might be lazy and busy to update entries..no one interested to read my junks..i have no interesting things to share..but yeah, im determined this time.

p.s: this blog is dedicated to Eimaan Harith and daddy Nazri..;)

LOVE

eid-ul-fitr 2011-three of us